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January is half over, and now I am ready for the new year mentally as well. Two pieces of furniture that I had quoted to finish in 2023 were still sitting in my workroom New Year’s morning, reminding me that I had fallen behind in my schedule when I was fighting a cold for weeks.
The customers were understanding, but my own mind wasn’t.

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But now the pieces are back with their owners, and I can make plans for the rest of 2024. I don’t have resolutions but I have goals, wishes, and dreams I would like to chase, fulfill, and manage this year.
I am not getting younger, now or never makes more sense than ever.
The saying goes we get a stack of empty sheets of paper, ready to be written on each New Year, but in my case, they are not so blank. There are some fun and not-so-fun appointments marked in our calendar already, and I have work projects lined up until April this year. And yesterday, to my absolute amazement, I sold a one-week class to a US soldier, who is stationed overseas, in a country he isn’t allowed to mention in an email. My business is doing well, but I know better than to allow myself to get overly excited. I know the universe is watching me, juggling some balls, which soon will come my way, the famous curveballs most of us know all too well.
The pandemic and the worldwide inflation has left a mark. When I am booked months ahead, it means people are careful with their money, and instead of the usual mindless spending, they try to hang on to the things they have, and rather have someone like me rejuvenate and reupholster them – for less.
As a matter of fact, my line of business is a barometer for the economy but nobody ever calls any of us, so I guess they think they know better.
I will celebrate a big milestone in February. My 10th quit anniversary is on February 2nd. Interestingly enough I would have forgotten all about it, but I quit smoking a couple of months after we had moved into our home, and we have lived here now for 10 years. Our blue-character house, that we thought we couldn’t afford. “We will stay for one more month,” we joked every time we paid rent for the first two years.
I think I will drive to a flower shop on my quit anniversary, and buy myself a nice flower bouquet or another orchid for this special occasion. 10 years smoke-free and I couldn’t remember the exact date. Funny how unimportant smoking has become. Did I really smoke cigarettes for 35 years? No way!
It also means I will celebrate my 10-year Blogaversary, which stuns me. Has it really been 10 years already? How come I still come up with stuff to write about and more importantly, do I want to continue?
Other anniversaries are coming our way, and holidays we like and love. Our calendar is not blank at all. Doctors’ appointments and the final settlement for my husband’s workman compensation claim will be discussed in February as well.
But there is so much time left between appointments, work, and sleep. There is a lot of time for living left and some of it I could use mindfully.
What would I love to accomplish in 2024?
Workwise I would like it to make it my best year so far and by the end of the year, I would like to finally open my own Etsy store and sell some of the pieces that I will have created by then, the ones I have created in my mind, that beg me to come to live. The ones I already finished and have stored away.
I understand I will never be perfect, but I would like to continue smiling when I look at the finished pieces. The word ‘excellence’ is on my mind. Continuing to aim for EXCELLENCE sounds like a good plan. Perhaps mixed with some healthy craziness?

I need to be nicer
By nature I am nice enough but not one of these sweet, soft-spoken women who come across as very kind and a bit fragile at times. Maybe I am not nice at all anymore. If you could read my mind at times, it’s awful. I seem to dislike people more and more, perhaps I could manage to be less sarcastic. My people-fuse got shorter so it seems, perhaps I could add on to it?
There are things I would like to buy, preferably with cash
A stackable washer and dryer set, 2 new mattresses, and a small freezer so we can start making sausages and take more advantage of the sales in the meat department.
Get Crafty
I have this idea in my head to make a Feminine Tool Pegboard and it’s time to make it happen. Also, I would love to paint my bedroom and create a silver-purple dream space just for me. I create so much for other people, perhaps occasionally I could do something for us.

Small ‘happy’ for others
A friend of mine always said, “Come on let’s get us some happy,” when we indulged a little bit or bought something silly that we didn’t need. If it makes you smile, it makes you happy.
It’s fun to do something out of the ordinary for other people, nothing big or fancy, just small reminders to show that we are grateful and they are appreciated. I have such good intentions, but then I forget. It’s time to live up to it.
Sausage Heaven
Over the years we have got it all together (tool-wise). A sausage stuffer, an electric meat grinder, a vacuum sealer, knives, and stuffing tools. We have two electric smokers. Now we just need an extra freezer and we are ready to rock’n’roll in the sausage department. It’s about time. My husband smoked the most marvelous things last year. He can’t wait to make sausages again, and neither can I. Perhaps we can even create a vegan sausage for me? So many years after we helped my friend in her sausage kitchen, it’s time to make our own.

It’s Austria, not Australia
I have heard it over a thousand times. “Do you miss the Kangaroos?” when I tell people I am from Austria. People don’t know the country where I am from very well, other than from the Hollywood-Austria in The Sound of Music that made Americans believe we eat Schnitzel with Noodles, dance all day in mountain costumes, and other nonsense. Perhaps I could make a post about Austria once a month and see how that goes, and if people would be interested? I think I would love it.
Writing
I need to finish writing “Losing it All,” before I lose it completely.
I haven’t written another installment in a year. Time to find a second-hand laptop and write in the living room when my husband bores me with football or spousal murders (that’s what I call the true crime stories he loves to watch.
I had fun taking an online class during COVID, perhaps I go back to Harward or find a similar, preferably free class for writing? How about punctuation, Bridget? Yep, that sounds good too.
Laughter, Exercise, and Health
I need to continue to laugh every day, which is easy when the universe gives you a clown dog, and I need to continue to move, even when it hurts. Actually, I need to move the most when it hurts, which seems counterproductive, but THEY are right. “MOVE, MOVE, MOVE don’t let RA get the best of you. Don’t let your joints get stiffer.”
As for my health, it’s a constant battle for improvement. I have been doing good, I have to do better!
2024, I am ready -finally!

Finally 2024 … hope love in world will be most important from anything else.. one thing people for get.. love it’s free ❤️🎁
I stumbled across your blog and so happy I did on your 10 year smoke free anniversary! I am currently working on quitting smoking and vaping and needed a little boost. You gave that to me, to show how you are enjoying life and how unimportant smoking has become. You gained a follower today!
Goodness, you are very kind. Thank you.
If you don’t mind. May I correct your statement, please. It should say, “I am currently quitting smoking and vaping.” (You are doing it, don’t doubt yourself. If I could do it, so can you. Millions of people have been there and they all survived just fine, even though some suffered a bit more than others, like my husband.)
Lovely post, your journey is inspiring. I love that colorful seater! Looks unique and colorful. Sometimes a little splash of color and quirk keeps us happy!
Thank you so much. I so agree, we all could use a bit more color.
Very true 🙂
As a nurse, this kind of content makes me feel so happy. Giving up smoking is no small feat, and some never attempt to quit. I think it is so important to celebrate accomplishments like these! I love also that you mentioned continuing to move to prevent stiffness, RA is a battle but you’re doing wonderful things for yourself. Congratulations my dear!!
Thank you Harley, I appreciate your comment and the well wishes more than I can say.
Wow… so much in one post! I would love to see you continue your story again, knew it had been awhile but a year surprised me. Hearing about Austria would be amazing… I doubt I will ever be able to travel to Europe so I need to “see” it somehow. And way to go … 10 years smoke free is fabulous! Way to take care of yourself! 🤗❤️
Oh my goodness, you are so sweet. Yes, I would love to talk and write a bit more about Austria and I need to finish our story. I thought I could do it on the dinning room table when my husband watches TV (in the living room). So I am still with him, but doing my thing. I will find an affordable laptop and then I will write like the wind. 🙂
I look forward to it!
Hello nonsmokingladybug,
I am just writing to you to give you my appreciation… I am not big on words, but I have to try to tell you how much your stories mean. 7 years ago you were detrimental in my journey to quit smoking. I clung to your every word, every posted experience and story. You were among the few who gave me the strength to keep going in my nonsmoking journey and I thank you for sharing your experiences.
Even though I do not know you and you do not know me, I want you to know your blogging efforts have big impact. You have natural ability for storytelling and are not afraid to tell it as its is and open up – you should be proud of it, those qualities have a wide reach.
I am not on social media and I never post reviews or comments, but for some reason I felt compelled today to do so. Although I have no ability to put in the words all the appreciation I have for your efforts and experiences, so I am going to put it simply… YOU MADE A DIFFERENCE for me and I thank you for it.
Thank you!
According to my husband, I am very seldom lost for words, and I only cry when I watch sad animal stories on TV. You comment left me speechless today in the morning and I teared up.
I am lost for words at the moment and I feel very humble.
Thank you for taking your time to write to me. Wow!
Congratulations, Bridget! Wishing you all good things in this new year! 🥰
I wish this for all of us. Let’s see what it will bring.
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It is great to look ahead and plan for the year and even better that you’re celebrating 10 years smoke free. I see that this year marks the 4th year since I moved to present location. Can I still call it a new life if that is so? Time is a mystery. All the best for reaching your goals for 2024.
Depends. If you have spent 40 years at the old location, then perhaps it’s still new after 4 years?
I started planning a bit, because if I don’t I forget ‘stuff’ and time flies without my permission way too quickly.
Thank you, Amanda. I wish you only the best for 2024 as well.
You have an amazing talent-and that’s with RA! And your energy to tackle new ambitions is admirable. 🙂
I am not so sure if it’s energy or just simple refusal to give into aging quite yet. As for RA, yes it sometimes surprises me as well what I can still do, but, I have helpers. I hired two guys who transport the thing back and forth to me, from garage to workroom and back and, I often need my husband’s help when I have to flip the items on my worktable.
Other than that, knock on wood!
Sounds like you are in for a busy and productive year Bridget, even if you only manage to achieve a few of your planned targets. Exciting times ahead, no doubt about that. Good luck!
I won’t achieve all, but I will do my best, now it’s in writing. 🙂
That chair is beyond fabulous!! The living room looks pretty awesome too. What a talent you have. You need to definitely get yourself some “happy” you are so worth it! <3
You are so sweet! I think we all could use a bit ‘happy’ these days
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I think your plans are fabulous!
It’s really time to fulfil some of our wishes or we kick the can down the road for another year.
Great to take stock from time to time and find out where we are, where we have been and where we are going. Congrats on both your “quit” and blog-aversaries, both significant achievements. All the best in 2024. Allan
I think that’s something we all need to do from time to time, or perhaps every year when we get older. Thank you, Allen. All the best for you as well.
You have a lot of plans for the year. I like the sausage making the best. Congratulations on not smoking for ten years and your blog anniversary. Great accomplishments.
We had fun making sausages so many years ago, it’s time to do it again.
Bridget I absolutely LOVE the pink and blue floral armchair, it’s just beautiful! 🙂
That is a fun creation, isn’t it.
All are excellent ideas to have floating around for this year! I hope you achieve what you can and that you will continue to enjoy reasonable health that will allow you to do what you enjoy best.
I will be happy if I achieve half of it. 🙂