THE NEWS

Each morning we listen for what is breaking—

the sound of a thousand tragedies fills the air,
shattering that never stops,
headlines, a fleet of anchors tangled at our feet.

We watch, worried
if we turn away even for an instant,
it will all crumble the rest of the way.

Forget with me for a moment.
Take an unguarded breath.
Do it now, the world needs your attention here, too,
on the rise and fall of your shoulders,
the rustle of leaves outside the window,
the warm space between your gaze and mine.

BY EMILIE LYGREN


Given the news in the world these days, it can be difficult to balance self-care with a need and responsibility to know what’s happening in other places as well as in our own communities. I recently came upon the work of Emilie Lygren and find her accessible, sometimes playful, and always moving poems a necessary balm for this time in our lives. The first line of “The news” alone reminds us how challenging it can be to take in the so-called “breaking” news, to view the brokenness in our own country and around the world in a continuous loop. Typically, we hear only about what’s wrong, and can become convinced that our world is too flawed and far-gone even to try fixing it. A dangerous apathy can set in, yet we feel remiss if we turn away. As Lygren points out, however, it is essential to “forget” sometimes, and to “take an unguarded breath,” which is another way of urging us all to embrace this moment and the next exactly as they appear. The world needs our attention on our own lives, too, and this poem gently invites us into that space of greater balance. We can forget the “breaking” news for just a minute so we remember again the human news of what’s right in front of us—“the warm space between your gaze and mine.”

17 Comments

  1. Unknown's avatar JoAnna said:

    “The warm space between your gaze and mine…. ” Slow me down, Lord. Help me look for that space. Look for the good news. it’s out there. It’s in here.

    January 27, 2024
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    • Good news is everywhere, but it’s quietly hidden at places, over shadowed by loud negativity. It drives me nuts.

      January 28, 2024
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  2. Unknown's avatar leigha66 said:

    We have to find a balance between the world and our own worlds… both are important. Self care may mean turning off the news on occasion and focusing instead on our own backyards. I think some of it is peace of mind too – there is very little you can do to effect change across the globe but if you focus within there is a reachable goal too. Wonderful share here – thanks!

    January 26, 2024
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    • It’s always about balance, isn’t it. Balance and moderation….why can’t we just accept it 🙂

      January 27, 2024
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      • Unknown's avatar leigha66 said:

        📰👨‍👩‍👧‍👦⚖️

        January 27, 2024
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  3. Unknown's avatar Debra said:

    What a fabulous poem, Bridget. It really causes one to think, which is an element of good poetry. That balance between not burning out because of too much information and emotional overload is strained with the need to be aware of the social and political elements that affect our lives. It’s a constant strain and I think it’s never been a more challenging question!

    January 25, 2024
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    • We all need to find our own way out of the never ending “Breaking News” cycle or we are doomed, no matter what party we belong to. It has become too manipulative and too one-sided. I want good old fashioned facts, please.

      January 27, 2024
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      • Unknown's avatar Debra said:

        I’m sure trying to figure it out, too! 😉

        January 27, 2024
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  4. Unknown's avatar Michele Lee said:

    Thank you for this share. 🍂

    January 25, 2024
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  5. Unknown's avatar Anne said:

    It is sometimes best to live in the here and now. Thank you for bringing this poem to our attention.

    January 25, 2024
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  6. Your so right, Bridget. We can’t keep up with the terrors of the world without stepping away.

    January 24, 2024
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  7. Unknown's avatar Victoria said:

    Thank you for this, Bridget. A beautiful moment to pause this afternoon. Just what I needed to reflect on what matters most. 💕

    January 24, 2024
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